We are on our last week of the summer activities in our Little Acorn Learning preschool curriculum. I’m getting more and more excited about fall activities – and Halloween! Last week, we submersed ourselves in the world of rocks and stones. We gathered them, washed them, painted them, and told stories about them. Rocks have always fascinated me and I had fun sharing that love with my girls. This week we are studying the beach, and so far, the weather has been so cool. I don’t know if the field trip to the lake beach I was thinking about will work or not.

Ivy washing rocks last week.
Ivy loved the physicality of the activities of last week. This week, I’m having a hard time with her. I learned a story so I could tell it to them by heart and use some simple props like silks. I tried four times today to start the story, but Ivy insisted on grabbing my props. Redirecting her and giving Ivy her own props made her angry. She ended up crying like a wild banshee. I put my story basket away and told Deladis we’d do the story after Ivy went down for her nap. Deladis then cried like a wild banshee, and I have felt down ever since. I’m wondering how Waldorf educational philosophy will work with a super spirited child like Ivy. I know there is something that I’m missing. I believe there is a way and I will find it.

Deladis washing rocks in her gemstone crown she colored and glued.
I think back to our days in Parent/Child classes when Deladis was Ivy’s age. Deladis loved it there, and so did I. It was so peaceful despite the age range in the children. Their play was usually unhindered and uninterrupted. We did a circle time that was relaxing and put me at such ease. Snack time was a great act of faith as our little toddlers and preschoolers used porcelain dishes. There was never one broken. During story time, the children sat in their mamas’ laps and when the occasional child would toddle over to touch the teacher’s props, redirection always worked. Parent/Child classes in Waldorf schools are supposed to mimic the home atmosphere and help parents learn the magic of early childhood and develop a rhythm to their home life. I so feel like I’m trying to mimic our Parent/Child classes. I want that peace in our days and activities. I’d love to see Ivy in e setting of an actual Parent/Child class. I think it would teach me so much.

A rock bath.
Until I can get it right (most of the time), I will read more, study more, and try more. As I said, there has to be something I’m not getting. Though they do look pretty happy in these pictures.
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September 3, 2009 at 4:26 pm
IdaLee Hansel
Kelli: I enjoyed your pictures of my great-granddaughters and how you took me back through time with this blog. As a young girl growing up in Hazard, the creek beds were clear then and I loved to wade the creek behind the Bakery and hunt for rocks and pieces of glass that were broken in odd pieces. I would rinse them off in the creek water and take them home where I would get a bucket much like Ivy and Deladis and washed, washed and washed, and then laid them out in the sun to dry.
The girls grandpa and great aunts would hunt rocks, and to this day their grandpa Mike brings me oddities that he finds while being out in the woods in his work. I still love rocks, and enjoy looking for them when the occasion does arise.
Some years ago I got a little rock for Christmas which I still have. The card said, “…I am your little prayer rock and this is what I’ll do, jut put me on your pillow until the day is through, then turn back your covers and climb nto your bed, and WHACK your little prayer rock, will hit you on the head. Then you will remember as the day is through to kneel and say your prayers as you intended to…”
It is a little longer but I thought your Mom might remember this little prayer rock and read the poem to you.
I love you…Great Mawmaw Hansel in SC
September 4, 2009 at 12:20 am
Deb in PA
Don’t be so hard on yourself! You’re not missing anything in teaching your girls. You have two different children who will respond in different ways. And Ivy is just a baby! I also have a very spirited younger daughter. When she was little like Ivy, she didn’t always participate or interact the way I thought she should have, but she learned just the same and most of all–had fun!
September 4, 2009 at 3:36 pm
eastkentuckygal
Thanks, I’m really good at making mountains out of mole hills. I get worked up so quick and think that things are falling apart. It’s a personal flaw. When Ivy grabs my story props and Deladis cries, my mind immediately thinks, “oh, my gosh, something is going way wrong.” That’s another reason I like blogging. I’m not just churning thoughts in my own mind. I have other great minds to chime in. 🙂
September 7, 2009 at 6:42 pm
shannonbaer
Hey, I am a true blue- been completely through the ENTIRE 12+ years of Waldorf education… As a work-at-home and take care of a bunch of kids in my house mama, I can both empathise and comfort you.. Waldorf Education is not about having controll over children… it’s about an approach to learning- that little children don’t need to be “taught” they need to be “inspired to learn” and when the children are ready… then they do it. The gift and magic of early childhood is that if your younger daughter is around while you do things with your older daughter, the younger one is learning all the time by imitating… there’s nothing lost! Good luck and glad I found your blog!
September 8, 2009 at 11:37 pm
eastkentuckygal
So, much of the Waldorf journey is personal growth on the part of the parent. Thank you for the comment. I so appreciate experienced advice. I see my freak out that day as being my problem nothing the girls did. Impatience. I’m working on it. 🙂