I rarely post a picture of myself on this blog (I think I have 3 times, this being the third), and you can see why. I am the real frumpy mom. I am the kind of person that the people doing these makeover shows would shake a finger at, then hug because they feel so sorry for me. If there is no where to go, I don’t get dressed. Yes, these are my pjs.
A friend on Facebook posted as her status the other day that she wished she could have a job where she wore her pjs. I do – mother, writer, and homesteader. In this particular picture taken yesterday for this post, I am wearing a thermal shirt that happens to be the first present John’s mother ever bought for me. I have been with John for fifteen years, so there is no need for any math to figure out how old this shirt is. As for the pants, I have to apologize, I don’t sport cartoon characters usually. I had nothing else clean. Both of these garments are more than several sizes too big for me. My shoes are used. I am the third owner of them. First they were my sister’s, then my mother’s, and now they are mine. 🙂 The soles are falling off, but they still work good for sloshing around in our current muddy situation (Did you see the dozer?). My hair, I know you think is lovely. 😉 A twig bun in the back, with no brushing beforehand. Just up and twig. Oh, and no makeup. I rarely do makeup even when I’m getting dressed up.
Now, I have heard people on TV and in print accusing mothers like me of having low self esteem, being lazy, and taking no pride in themselves. I’m not buying it. Why would I want to wear my nice clothes to clean house, cook, and tend children, dogs, and poultry? I don’t. I’m not putting on an outfit to hang out in the holler. I might if I’m getting company, but that’s a big might. 😉
I don’t think John cares what I wear from day to day, and I am satisfied in my pjs. It’s not because I fancy myself ugly. I can dress for an occasion and that is exactly what I do. I love comfort and ease. I have too many other important things to worry about like preparing nutritious meals, homeschooling the girls, doing a yoga session, reading a good book, or writing this blog post.